"You Ain't Got Style!"

So, I have this friend and we were talking last night on the phone and according to him, we could never be more than friends. Now, as of right now, I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone so it took me by surprise when he said this but when I asked him why, it was an even more surprising answer. "We could never date," he said, " 'cause you ain't got style like me." I was completely taken by surprise and didn't know what to say so I ask him, "Could you elaborate more for me, please?" When he began speaking I just wanted to tone him out but I listened anyways. He said, "Well, 'cause when we be goin' out and stuff to clubs and stuff, I'd look to thugish and you'd look too much like a white girl!" I think that was the last straw for me.

Normally it takes a lot for me to have my straws pulled but for being a 'white girl' from St. Louis, Listen to nothing but Hip Hop most days, I took this very personally. This guy has not known me long enough to know what I would wear to a club, or even what I would wear on a day to day basis but let's just say the conversation was finished and me and him will NOT be dating in the near future, not because he says so, but because he's ignorant at even knowing anything about me. Lame.